What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?
Last Updated: 19.06.2025 19:51
What was the longest? What was the shortest?
Any that are a turn off?
37~ What is the biggest age gap between you and one of your sexual partners? Who? Care to Share?
Why is money considered to be the root of all evil?
12~ Have you ever had a one-nightstand? Was it good, fun, satisfying? Would you do it again?
90~ Have you ever had sex in a Pool or Hot Tub? Would you?
The Ice Breaker Questions
How did Madri, mother of Nakula and Sahadeva die?
66~ What’s the shortest time it’s ever taken for you to have an orgasm? And the longest?
Physical Touch - Words of Affirmation - Quality Time - Acts of Service - Receiving Gifts
Nothing too Serious
2~ How old were you when you got to 2nd base? (Tongue kissing, breast feeling, or outside the clothes genital contact) Who? Care to Share?
21- Do you have any piercings? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
9~ How many times over your lifetime do you think you have had sex so far?
Why do women change that much more with age?
27- What was/ is nickname? Does it have a meaning behind it?
79~ How important is it to have a partner that will help and encourage you to fulfill your fantasies and desires?
*** Questions About Me ***
Is it ok for a man to perform oral sex after he has ejaculated inside of you?
42~ What’s your biggest regret in life?
3~ How old were you when you got to 3rd base? (Touching and stimulating the genitals. Oral sex)
How about if they talk dirty and/or call you names?
9- If you could have three wishes, what would they be? Why?
61~ How willing would you be to try new sexual positions?
Why is my ex still keeping in touch with me even though she dumped me?
64~ When was your very first orgasm? When was your first from having sex? Care to share?
What have you learned about me that was new and/or surprising?
14- Do you have a “Deal Breaker”, anything that your partner has done or will do, a boundary that once crossed you are done with the relationships?
What did Chandrashekhar Azad say about Hinduism during a podcast?
20~ Have you ever cheated? Care to Share? If you have, why do you believe that you did?
17- Have you ever done drugs? Which ones? How often?
74~ Have you ever had sex while others watched? Have you ever watched others have sex?
What are some ten strong legal evidences that are needed for a divorce?
What is your favorite toy? Ever wanted to try a specific toy?
72~ Is it ok to ejaculate on your body, face, ass, breast? How about in your mouth? Is there any place not allowed?
Foot fetishes, Role-playing, Sadism, Masochism, Bondage, Discipline, Dominance and submission, Voyeurism, Exhibitionism, Furries, Humiliation, Gender/Age play, Cuckolding, Gagging, etc.?
Final Fantasy 16 runs at 720p on Xbox Series X in performance mode - Video Games Chronicle
63~ Is having an orgasm important every time you have sex? Have you ever faked an orgasm?
If yes, what kind? (Clitoral, Vaginal, G-Spot. Anal, Squirting, A-Spot, Cervix, Breast/Nipple, Touching, non- Touching/Mental)
22~ What is the best pickup line anyone has ever used on you? What was the worst?
Do countries with free health care generally have co-pays or deductibles to discourage use?
4- For a pet, Cat, dog or other?
85~ If you gave me a “free Pass” to have me do anything for one hour, what would you want me to do to you?
Would you mind if your partner watched it? How about together vs alone?
20- Do you have any tattoos? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
34- Ever been to a concert? What was your favorite? Who would you like to see?
9- What’s your favorite season and why? What’s your least favorite?
43~ If you could write up to a one-page letter to yourself, what would you say and what age would you send it?
82~ Do you have any fantasies involving Role-Playing?
25~ How do you feel about PDA? (Public Display of Affection)
71~ Would you give your partner a hand or foot job? Would you receive one?
9- Is there something you’ve always wanted to ask me but you’re afraid?
Any that are a turn off?
36- Do you play video games? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
10- List 5 of your top pet peeves.
77~ What are your thoughts on swapping or swinging or group sex? Have you ever? Care to Share?
92~ Everyone needs a “safe” word. What is yours?
*** Random Questions ***
* Which of the following turns you on the most? Do you have any not on this list? Care to share?
6- What’s your favorite TV series? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
62~ Have you used adult toys?
6~ How many sexual partners have you had? Can you name them all? Can you remember when and where?
If you say it, I will stop, and we can talk about it when you are ready.
Do you prefer your partner’s pubic hair trimmed, Landing Strip, full bush or completely bare?
76~ Have you had a threesome? Care to Share?
How long for foreplay? Do you need to have an orgasm? Is afterplay important?
What would you say to prove to yourself that it was really you?
51~ What tends to bring a smile to your face?
If you win, what will you make them do?
87~ Do you like it when I used my teeth (lightly)? How do you feel about hickeys?
9- How about not brushing their teeth or having bad breath? 10- How about if they cuss too much?
Family Relation Age Play
40~ What’s the weirdest place you’ve ever had sex?
22- Do you have any birth marks? How about scars? Care to share how you got them?
I would allow you to do it… What would you do to me?
Can you Deep Throat? Do you like the taste of yourself?
How many times do you think you have “made love”?
16- Can we talk about your health history? Have you had any surgeries? Any broken bones?
29- How superstitious are you?
2- Are you afraid of anything? (Spiders, heights, snakes, etc.) What is your greatest fear?
11- Is there something you would like me to do, in any area of our relationship that I have not done, or you want more of?
47~ What would be your dream job and why?
30~ What's something unexpected that turns you on?
21- What's your favorite way to spend a weekend or time off?
Can you have multiple orgasms? Are you able to have different kinds of orgasms?
Will you cheat again? How can, you be sure? Define what cheating is to you.
5- Do you fold or scrunch? (toilet paper while you wipe) 6- How about bad hygiene?
What’s the longest time you gone without having sex, after, having it? How much time between the others?
38- If you won the Lottery and got 200 million dollars, what would you do with all that money?
55~ Would you ever go to a nude beach/resort with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
46~ Where do you want to be in your life in a year? How about 5 years? How about 10 years?
11- List at least 5 things on your bucket list. Have you done any of them already?
10~ How many dates are necessary before you to have sex with someone?
8- What's something unexpected that turns you on that I do to you? Don’t be shy now, I really want to know.
10- Do I have a habit or quirk that you find cute or weird? How about an annoying habit of mine?
35- Do you like playing board or cards game? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
20- What’s your favorite candy? What’s your least favorite?
Nurse/Patient Celebrity/Fan
45~ What do you like about yourself? Rate yourself 1-10. (Looks, personality, etc....)
3- What’s your favorite smell? Do you a least favorite?
(Strip poker, truth or dare, spin the bottle, Naked Twister, adult card games Etc.) Have you ever? Care to Share?
Are you willing to help and encourage your partner to fulfill their fantasies and desires?
Model/Photographer Police/Criminal
48~ Do you have any siblings? Are you close to your family?
26~ What side of the bed do you sleep on?
80~ Share your top three fantasies/desires. (Be detailed) 😊
31- If given a chance to be immortal, would you take it? Why?
* Give a rating for each one (0-100)
28- What are some things that people do that irritate you?
Do you shave/trim your pubic hair? For you guys do you shave your balls?
How old are you? Male or Female?
That one or two things that made you go hmmmm, OMG or wow!
Would /have you ever given your partner a lap dance and Striptease?
Do you like it when they show and tell you what they want?
35~ Do you like playing music in the background or silence? Is there a sexy song that tends to get you in the mood?
25- Fight, Flight, or Freeze? What is your typical response? Does it change with different settings?
33- If you could visit any time period, when would you pick? Please explain why?
47~ Have you ever thought about trying tantric sex? (Not sure? Look it up)
These go from easy to answer, to OMG, you really want to know that?! to some serious thought. Take your time and have fun with this. The past is the past… it got you two here together…
11- What's your favorite restaurant? What’s your least favorite?
39~ Share your top three favorite/best memorable sexual experiences. Want to repeat them?
What is your favorite position? Why?
17~ What is the average length of your relationship(s)? What was the longest? Why did they end?
1- What’s your favorite animal? Do you a least favorite?
Take the short quiz here @ Discover Your Love Language® - The 5 Love Languages®
30- Do you prefer living in the countryside, in a town, or in a big city? Why?
56~ Would you ever go to a strip club with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
Do you have a favorite? Is it ok if your partner does?
27~ If you could freeze your body but not your mind at a certain age, what age would you be? Explain why.
If YES, was it with 2 men or 2 women? Did you enjoy it?
39~ What are your love languages?
4- What do you like about me? Rate me 1-10. (Looks, personality, overall, etc....)
51~ Are you willing to play adult games with your partner?
Meaning if you ever say it no matter how long we have been together or where we are in the moment…
6- Do you have dreams? Can you remember them? What do you usually dream about?
92~ Have you ever had or have an STD? How many? What was it?
Would you allow me to shave your legs? How about your pubic hair? How about shower sex?
49~ If you could, would you want to be the opposite sex for a day, week, or year?
69~ Are you willing to have sex while you or your partner is on their period? How about oral sex?
Doctor/Nurse Stripper/Client
13- What is the craziest/scariest thing you've ever done?
22- What is your favorite childhood memory? What is your least favorite?
4~ How old were you when you lost your virginity? Is it a good memory? Who? Care to Share? (be detailed)
49~ How many times have you been married? Why did they end?
36~ What is your favorite time of day to have sex/make love?
Master/Slave Boss/Maid
11- How about if they like a certain sports team? 12-How about drinking too much?
59~ Have/do you masturbate? How often? What do you use? (Toys, Phone sex, Erotica, Hard Core, shower/water, etc) Would you, while your partner watches?
1- What’s your (zodiac, astrological) sign? Do you believe this has any meaning in your life?
43~ Ever had your hair pulled during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
Would/have you gotten a lap dance? Would/have you watched your partner get a lap dance?
5~ When you first started having sex, was it what you thought it would be?
7~ How many times in one day have you had sex? Who/When/Where? Care to Share?
38~ Share your most embarrassing sexual memory?
24~ What are your expectations in a relationship? (I know a very big question, take your time)
21~ What was the best date you ever went on? What has been the worst?
26- Do you cry while watching a movie or TV show? Which one did you cry the hardest?
44~ Have you ever been tied up during sex? What are your thoughts on bondage?
10- What is your favorite family tradition? What’s your least favorite?
37- Do you like your name? If you could change it, what would you change it too?
Get this wrong and this could mean the end… :-) some funny, some not…
42~ Ever been spanked during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
14- What's your favorite dessert? Do you a least favorite?
Escort/Client Job Applicant/Hiring Manager
13~ Is there a difference between, making love, having sex, and fucking?
14 – Is it ok to talk to you while you are on the toilet? 15- Is it ok to eat while on the toilet?
Would you read them together?
32- What's your greatest talent? Can I see it right now?
18- How often do you drink alcohol? What is your favorite drink?
5- What’s your favorite movie genre? What’s your favorite movie of all time? How many times have you watched it?
67~ Do you like it when your partner moans and/or is vocal during sex?
2- What’s your favorite color? Do you a least favorite?
Piecing, tattoo, color hair, dress up a certain way, it could be anything… Shave me…
53~ How about wearing no panties or bra at all, while wearing a dress or skirt? How about stockings and Garter Belts?
50~ Where would you like to be touched more? Do you have a place that you want to be touched, that no one has, or has only happened a couple times? How about less?
70~ Would/do you have/like anal sex?
Please share Did you stop?
11~ Have you ever been caught by your parents or children or others while having sex?
6- Is there anything that I do/say that irritates you? How about makes you smile and love to hear it?
Is there a smell that most people do not like that you do? Is there a smell that triggers a memory?
33~ Share your thoughts on what you believe great sex/love making is to you? How long should it last?
89~ Do you like taking showers together?
88~ Do you prefer me to be naked or in lingerie, PJ’s when you are sleeping?
14- What is an embarrassing moment in your life? How about your most embarrassing?
1- What was your first impression of me? Has it changed?
7-What do I do in bed that drives you wild? How about, what turns you off?
93~ Now that this really long questionnaire is over, one last question, ok maybe 3…
54~ Would you ever go skinny dipping with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
7- What are your thoughts on religion? Is there an afterlife?
46~ Have you ever used furniture, or other types of things to aid you while having sex?
*** Questions about Relationships/Past ***
Have you ever? Care to Share?
12- What’s your favorite food? What’s your least favorite?
1- Down the back or over the top? (The toilet paper roll) 2- Up or down? (The toilet seat)
What is your view on sex? Meaning, When/Where/ How often/
If yes, what?
68~ Would you ever get your partner up from bed by using oral sex and/or intercourse?
15- What's your favorite saying? What word or phrase is your least favorite?
18~ Who/when was your first “crush”?
4- What’s your favorite genre of music? What’s your least favorite? Is there a song that triggers a memory?
A comprehensive questionnaire, this should be a fun exercise to get to know each other. Try to give as much detail as possible when answering questions. You can go through this together and talk about each question or fill out the questionnaire as completely as you can and once you are done, go through each question together. If you have been together for a while, it is also fun to try to answer the questions for your partner. Remember this should be fun, so if you do not wish to answer a question you can “PASS” and not answer. Both should answer honestly and without judgement. (This is important, without judgement) I hope this helps you get closer and strengthens your relationship… You can learn a lot about the other person… and yourself…
81~ Do you have any kinks and/or fetishes?
40~ If you could go back in time, and relive your life, with the knowledge you have now, what age would you go back to and why?
44~ Care to share something about yourself that no one else knows about you?
Does the thought excite you? Care to share?
73~ Have you ever had public sex? Care to share? Have you ever had an orgasm in a public place?
91~ Would you ever go into an adult book/toys store with me? Would you buy something?
Would you allow me to clean every part of your body with my soapy hands and fingers?
45~ How do you feel about me blindfolding you? How about blindfolding me?
7- What’s your favorite book? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
1~ How old were you when you had your first kiss? Who? Care to Share?
16~ Do you believe in “soulmates”? Have you found yours? Who? Care to Share?
3- Should Pluto still be considered a planet? 4- How about smoking?
What have you learned about yourself that you did not before this?
8- What's your favorite flavor of ice cream? Do you a least favorite?
29~ What are some things that turn you off? What is your biggest turn off?
31~ What do you find most attractive sexually and non-sexually in a man/woman? (Body and Personality)
13- How about having a certain hair cut/style?
28~ What are some things that turn on? What is your biggest turn on?
*** Deal Breaker Questions ***
15- What bad habit do you wish you could quit? Do you have any addictions?
If NO, would you ever have one? Would it be with 2 men or 2 women?
12- What is the weirdest thing you've ever eaten?
Prisoner/Prison Guard Landlord/Tenant
52~ What are your hobbies?
50~ How many children do you have? What are their ages?
17- What’s your favorite holiday? What’s your least favorite?
7- What if a person smells a certain way? 8- How about smoking?
33- Beach or Mountains? Or is there another place to like better?
34~ Do you like the lights on or off during sex?
32~ What are your favorite foreplay activities? Kissing/Touching? Food? Toys? Role Play? Others?
60~ How important is oral sex? Do you like receiving? Do you like giving?
Over time has your thoughts on sex changed?
15~ Have you ever been “in love”? Who? Care to Share?
5- Have you ever been hypnotized? Would you allow yourself to be?
*** What’s Your Favorite…? ***
8- What are your thoughts on politics?
19- What’s your favorite fairytale? What’s your least favorite?
41~ What are you best at in bed? What do you think you are not so good at? Anything you want to get good at?
3- What Superhero or Superpower would you want to be/have?
5- What do I do outside the bedroom that turns you on? How about, what turns you off?
52~ Are you willing to make “those types” of bets with your partner?
How well do you know me? And some of your thoughts about me
23- What is your dream job? What was it as a child?
19~ Who/when was your first “heartbreak”?
16- What’s your favorite vacation you have been on? What’s your least favorite? Where would you like to go?
How do you feel about anal play? (Fingers, toys, butt plug) How do you feel about rimming? (licking)
If you lose, are you willing to be their sex slave for a day, (anything goes)?
24- What celebrities would you use your hall pass on? How about just dinner, or just hanging out with you?
14~ When was the first time you said, “I Love You”? (romantically) Did you mean it? Who? Care to Share?
3- What was the most surprising thing you’ve learned about me throughout our relationship?
48~ Have you ever paid or been paid for sex?
Do you watch it? What is your favorite?
Would you ever want to be woken up with oral and/or intercourse?
23~ What do you believe is required to have a successful and healthy relationship? (This is important, take your time, and really think about this)
41~ Are there moments in your past that you would want to change? Please share 3 of them.
Teacher/Student Stranger/One Night Stand
85~ If I gave you a “Free Pass” for you to do anything to me for one hour, knowing that no matter what you did,
Do you like the “69” position? Do you prefer to be on top or bottom?
13- What’s your favorite drink? What’s your least favorite?
18- What’s your favorite way to relax after a long day? What’s your least favorite?
8~ How many times a week would you like to engage in sexual activities? What is the average for you now?
Would you do it again, and would you rather 2 females or 2 males?
58~ Have you ever taken Nude or Hard-core photos and/or videos? Care to Share?
78~ Have you ever thought about making out or having sex with someone of the same sex? Care to Share?
How many partners have you had oral sex with? Who? Care to Share?
Will you kiss after your partner has gone down on you? Swallow or spit semen?
19- Do/have you smoked? What do you prefer? How often?
What do you dislike about me? I asked you to be 100% honest.
53~ How much can you tell me about the one thing you are most passionate about?
2- What do you remember about our first date? Rate it. Rate our first kiss. Rate our first time together.
You know that I will be 100% truthful, so ask.
75~ If your partner wants an orgasm/have sex when you don't desire to have sex, how do you plan to deal with their needs?
83~ How do you feel about Porn?
65~ Describe the best orgasm you’ve ever had? Care to share?
Do you think this brought you closer together?
Repairman/Lonely Wife Virgin/Experienced
(Dildo, vibrator, nipple clamp, cock ring, butt plug and tail, couples’ toys, pocket pussy/sleeves, Ben-wa balls, pumps, gags, strap-on, remote controlled, vibrating panties, ETC…)
84~ How do you feel about reading/listening to adult stories?
57~ Describe the perfect penis/vagina. Does size really matter? What is too big/small?